An Elegantly Modern Wedding At The Umstead Hotel & Spa Filled With Love, Culture & A Karaoke Finale

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There’s something truly magical about a wedding that feels like a heartfelt reunion—and for Madison and Matt Cabral, their big day at The Umstead Hotel & Spa in Cary, NC was exactly that. Surrounded by loved ones, cultural traditions, and a shared spirit of celebration, this wedding was more than just beautiful—it was deeply meaningful.

“One of my favorite parts of our wedding was that it was truly a celebration of our families coming together,” Madison shared. “Friends who had never met before were finally connecting, loved ones from different parts of our lives were mingling, and the whole day was filled with an overwhelming sense of love and unity.”

Set against the refined elegance of The Umstead Hotel & Spa, the couple chose a venue known for its five-star hospitality, serene setting, and luxurious aesthetic. The lush grounds and timeless interiors created the perfect backdrop for a day filled with connection and culture. From start to finish, The Umstead’s team ensured every detail was flawless—giving the couple space to be fully present with their guests.

Celebrating Heritage Through Heartfelt Traditions

Rooted in Italian and Portuguese family culture, the couple wove meaningful traditions into their ceremony and reception.

“We really wanted our families to be a part of the ceremony as much as possible,” the bride explained. “We had them do a blessing over us at the ceremony and honored our loved ones at the reception with a table of our family that we miss dearly.”

And of course, no Italian wedding is complete without confetti—sugar-coated almonds given as a traditional wedding favor. The couple handed out packets of five, symbolizing health, wealth, happiness, fertility, and long life.

These touches grounded the celebration in heritage and intention, creating a wedding that felt like a gorgeous union not just of the couple, but of the two families and their communities.

A Reception That Hit All the Right Notes

As the sun set, the energy soared—and that’s where Bunn DJ Company came in. Known for their polished professionalism and crowd-reading expertise, Bunn DJ turned the reception into a high-energy dance party. And just when guests thought it couldn’t get better?

“We capped the night with an unforgettable karaoke moment, singing our hearts out to You Make My Dreams Come True by Hall & Oates!” the bride shares.

It was the perfect ending to a day already overflowing with celebration and joy—proof that when the dance floor is right, so is the vibe.

Takeaway Inspiration for Your Own Wedding Day

Whether you’re planning a wedding that celebrates culture, prioritizes family, or ends in a karaoke mic drop moment, there’s so much inspiration to draw from this couple’s unforgettable day.

Here’s what made it shine:

  • A luxury venue that handles every detail with care
  • Personal and cultural ceremony moments that honored both Italian and Portuguese traditions
  • A thoughtful memorial table to celebrate loved ones who couldn’t be there
  • A wedding favor with meaning—traditional confetti almonds symbolizing five wishes
  • And a reception DJ who knew how to throw the ultimate party

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Wedding stationery flat lay featuring Italian coastal postcard, save the date card, photo strip, wax seal, and white peony
Modern exterior of The Umstead Hotel & Spa featuring glass balconies, stone accents, and landscaped courtyard
Bride and bridesmaids in pink and white lace-trimmed robes smile together during getting-ready preparations
Groom and groomsmen in formal attire toasting with drinks before wedding ceremony
Bride in modern white wedding gown with dramatic puff sleeves stands beside bridesmaid in floral dress
Bridal accessories on black table including bouquet, strappy heels, jewelry, and pearl-embellished veil
Bride in off-shoulder wedding gown holding bouquet of pink roses and eucalyptus on sunlit balcony
Bride and groom posing on opposite sides of stone pillar surrounded by greenery at The Umstead Hotel
Bride in fitted white gown poses with bridesmaids wearing mismatched floral dresses holding garden-style bouquets
Aerial view of outdoor wedding ceremony setup with white chairs flanking stone pathway leading to lake at The Umstead Hotel
Newlyweds share first kiss as married couple on stone pathway aisle at The Umstead Hotel outdoor ceremony
Smiling bride and groom holding hands during outdoor ceremony at The Umstead Hotel gardens
Bride and groom walking hand-in-hand through wooded gardens at The Umstead Hotel & Spa
Bride looking back over shoulder while walking with groom past outdoor cocktail reception at Umstead Hotel
Wedding reception table with I-Spy game card, disposable camera, and white floral centerpieces
Donut wall display with assorted flavors and additional donuts arranged on white platters
Newlyweds sharing their first dance under chandelier in elegant ballroom at The Umstead Hotel & Spa
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Other Local Vendors:

Bunn DJ Company, Annah Riedel Photography

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